Guest Post: How To Identify A Great Day Care Center With 10 Easy Signs

ReneeToday’s post is a guest post from Renee Bock, the Chief Academic Officer of Explore+Discover, an early learning center in New York City that offers quality care and education for infants and toddlers.  You can visit Explore + Discover on KidAdmit to learn more about their programs and apply! 


After a baby is born, parents who are preparing to return to work naturally seek the very best options for child care. Whether a child will be with a nanny, at a childcare center or with family, the choice is more personal and important than almost any other we make at this stage of our child’s life—and parents need to feel good about their choice. It has to be affordable. It has to be safe. And beyond those essentials, we want to feel like we’re leaving our young children in a situation in which they’ll feel happy, loved, engaged, and cared for.

But just as all nannies are not alike, neither are all day care centers—and I would encourage anyone interested in day care to shop around a bit. Once you start touring (and you must) you’ll see a huge range in quality.

Start with your local Licensing Department or the Department of Health and Human Services to make sure your center is licensed. While this may sound bureaucratic, it is essential. The states is on your side in this case and they are ultimately responsible for the safety of each child in every center—almost serving as your advocate while you are at work. They oversee the safety of the physical space including adherence to the fire codes, the sleeping arrangements, the professional qualifications of the director and teachers, access to playground space and assurances that children are immunized according to schedule. No water, center too hot or cold for children, an unsafe condition of any kind, and the state will close a center down. Period.  Your state will also likely have a website where you can ensure that a center is licensed and operating legally, determine if the center’s ratio and size are in compliance, or if they are exceeding the baseline recommendations.

Don’t stop with these safeguards. There are other considerations you should look for in a center that will become your child’s home away from home:

1) Professional Staff That Stays: The director and as many teachers as possible should have formal expertise in early childhood education and/or child development. Knowing how to talk to children, what typical development looks like and how to foster learning are all crucial. Staff stability from year to year is also important.

2) Clean Environment: The space should be beautiful, light, inviting and smell good. See some dust bunnies and chances are there are some cleaning problems. It is also important to rely on your gut feelings. There should be nothing distasteful about the space.

3) Safety Plans: The center should have formal and published safety plans and policies. They should outline monitoring of drop off and pick up of children; systems for guaranteeing that only approved people have access to your child; how and when practice drills are conducted for fire and other emergencies; and the location of the emergency pick up point outside the center in case communications are down. The plans should also underscore that the staff is trained in safe sleep practices and what to do if a child gets lost.

4) A Mission Statement: A quality center will have a mission statement that expresses the core of its values and philosophy and that statement should make you feel personally connected and aligned.

5) A Curriculum: A center for children as young as 3 months old should have a curriculum and an approach to learning clearly defined that also outlines a way of communicating the learning process with you. The curriculum must take into account children’s social and emotional development. It should also recognize and promote the importance of attachments to adults and care as crucial to children’s education and overall well-being.

6) Professional Development: Everyone at a center is a learner or should be (including parents). In order for teachers to be engaged they need to be challenged and inspired, expanding their background on early learning as well as practical considerations for things like safe sleep practices, CPR and First Aid. Centers that devote resources to professional development have happier teachers and happier kids.

7) Health Policies and Procedures: Center of choice should have published policies and practices that among other things track immunizations, are clear about dismissal procedures when a child is sick, how information is communicated when there’s contagious illness in a classroom, etc. The center should also run developmental assessments twice a year to make sure children are progressing and there are no concerns.

8) Welcoming to Parents: The center should have an open door policy for parents to stop by at any time. Additionally, there should be regular communication between the center and home, parent teacher conferences, newsletters from teachers and notes from the director. When you have concerns you should feel heard even when you disagree with a teacher or director.

9) Offer a Network of Support: Children, families and centers face different challenges and there are times when advice from an outside expert is needed. Great centers have contacts with therapists, doctors and others who can get involved. Strong centers often feature talks by professionals and parenting becomes part of the curriculum.

10) Have an Extra Something: Every center has a little extra something, a spark that you can’t quite put your finger on, that gives it a unique flavor. It could be the social events for families, a music or art program, the way the teachers talk to the children, the outdoor space. Positivity can’t always be explained.

One sure sign that a center is a special place is when it is passionately supported by parents, particularly when families encourage their friends to join. The fact that parents want to merge their personal circle with the center says it all. When you take a tour, ask to meet your child’s teachers and ask if there’s a parent you can call as a reference.

Before you start you are likely to feel a bit nervous; it’s natural. But once you make it through your first week and establish a routine, you should be comfortable. You’ll go to work with a lightness in your step knowing your baby is in very good hands.

Renee Bock is a dedicated early childhood educator, who is currently the Chief Academic Officer at Explore+Discover, a social learning center in Manhattan that is committed to setting the standard for infant and toddler care and education. Renee has more than a decade of experience in the field and holds a Master’s in Early Childhood Education from Bank Street College in New York. She has three sons, Ariel (16), Raffi (14), and Shaya (13). She can be reached at Renee@K3Learn.com

Guest Post: Sing! Your Baby’s Brain Will Benefit

The benefits of exposing babies and toddlers to music are by now well documented. You have probably observed the positive effects on mood that music can have on both you and your baby. You might have also discovered the trick of using music to help focus a child’s attention. And as toddlers learn song lyrics and melodies, they are beginning to access the power of music as a tool for memorization.

But do you know that live music can be even more beneficial? For example, in a 2013 study1, researchers found that live singing can improve a premature baby’s vital signs. The study’s lead author, Joanne Loewy says, “There’s just something about music — particularly live music — that excites and activates the body. Music very much has a way of enhancing quality of life and can, in addition, promote recovery.”

Lullabies, especially parents singing culturally relevant songs that they have selected, are particularly effective. Singing these lullabies helped ease some of the stress and anxiety of the mothers and fathers as well, and enhanced the emotional bond between parent and child. Additionally, singing to your baby aids in vocabulary development, and can be a nice compliment to constantly talking to someone who will not talk back (for a while at least!).

It is important to note that these benefits manifest regardless of the parent’s formal musical talents or training. So even if you think you’re tone deaf, rhythmically challenged, or just shy about singing… get over it and SING! Your baby will reap the benefits of your singing no matter what you sound like.

– Laura Warner, director of Music for Aardvarks in the Bay Area.

Looking for some new songs to sing? Want to learn culturally relevant, witty, intelligent songs for kids? Come try a Music for Aardvarks and Other Mammals class!

 

 

Sources: http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/131/5/902

Guest Post: How to know if ballet class is right for your child?

There are a lot of activity options for children today: sports, art, music…it can be a little overwhelming to know what is right for your child. Ballet is a unique combination of athletic activity, artistic creativity, and musical inspiration all in one. Here are a few ways to know if you might have a little ballerina or dancing prince on your hands:

 

  1. Does your child like to move around?
    Wiggle and shake and bounce and jump? Ballet teaches children learn to move about in a whole new way and work on their balance.
  2. Do they like music?
    Ballet is great for gaining a greater appreciation for music, and for developing rhythmic awareness.
  3. Do they like to express themselves artistically?
    Ballet encourages children to be themselves, and to articulate how they feel through movement.
  4. Do they like to have fun?
    Ballet offers a dynamic experience filled with laughter, friends, and new experiences.

If you want to try out a class, Tutu School offers free trial classes at their nine locations. Learn more at tutuschool.com.

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Guest Post: Baby Talk Before Baby Talks — Sign Up for Signing

This was originally published in Parenting on the Peninsula by Evelyn Preston and is re-posted here with permission of the author.  Interested in learning more about Baby Sign Language? Be sure to check out Touch Blue Sky!

Every parent’s been there, those fraught moments when their cuddly, cooing, oh-so-cute baby suddenly turns into a cranky, frustrated infant or toddler, spitting food, constantly crying, or even throwing tantrums. When it’s a toss-up over who’s more frantic and confused, baby or mommy, and it’s definitely not colic, a bump or a burp, there’s an ingenious way to ask baby “What’s up?” The little tyke may not yet have any words but definitely demands to be heard. Continue reading

Using Technology to Connect with Families: A School Starter Guide

This post is being co-hosted by KidAdmit and Kaymbu – be sure to check each post for a special offer from each company.

Today’s parents are an ultra-connected bunch – most spend hours on their smartphone each day – checking social media sites, managing their schedule, and researching options for their family. They’re constantly connected and expect personalized content from the businesses and organizations that are part of their day-to-day lives. If you’re like most school directors we talk to, you’re looking for better ways to use technology to communicate with the families that are part of your school’s community, but could use some tips to get started. With so many options to get your message out, how do you choose? We’re here to help with 5 easy ways to help your school better use technology to connect with families.

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5 Things I Wish I Knew When Applying For Preschool

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This post originally appeared on Recess Urban Recreation

Got preschool on the brain? So do we!

Here are 5 tips that should help parents feel more prepared when applying to preschool for their child(ren). These tips are ones I have heard from several preschool directors and early education consultants. Continue reading

Tips from an Admissions Director – Part 2: The Application Process

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Today’s post is Part 2 in a 2-Part Guest Series: Tips from an Admissions Director.  In today’s post, Anu Menon builds on Part 1: The Thought Process and delves into the process of preschool admissions.  Need help managing all of your applications? Sign up for a KidAdmit account today! 

Part 2: The Application Process

  1. Pay attention and follow the process – Each school is different so keep track of each set of application requirements and make sure you follow through. An incomplete application = no application. In many cases the same goes for late applications.
  2. The best form of communication is relevant and genuine communication (see “be genuine” above) – Communication should be relevant and not over the top. Look at a school’s admissions process and think about how each step helps them to get to know your family (remember it’s all about fit). Are they meeting you and your child? Do they ask for an evaluation from your child’s current school? What information can they glean from essay questions?
  3. If you feel compelled to send additional information then be thoughtful about it.
    a. If you are interested in a school then a thank you note/email is just good manners after you go on a school tour or have an interview.
    b. Think about the school and what message you’re giving them by sending more elaborate things. Does the item give them more information about you that’s relevant? For example, if the school interviews parents or organizes play dates then they’re getting to know you and your child in person already. Sending a photo book doesn’t tell them anything additional about you. Potentially sending more information to a school that just takes applications and doesn’t meet applicants might be useful. But sending a handmade poster/collage/piñata may backfire (see below about not adding extra work for the admissions director).
  4. Do not add extra work for the admissions director – Have a question? Send it over email or make a short phone call. Unless it’s part of the school’s culture don’t ask to set up a personal meeting outside of the admissions events. Avoid “happening to stop by with your child” the day before letters go out. You are just adding extra work for the admissions director and given how busy the season is that may not reflect well.
  5. The number of spots is a moving target – To parents it seems like admissions directors should easily be able to answer the question “how many openings do you have in the fall?” but in reality it’s not very easy to calculate. Let’s say a school typically has 10 spaces for new 3 year olds each fall. There are 3 siblings eligible for those spots this year. Then there are 7 spots left, right? Well, the parents of two of those siblings are debating whether to enroll this year or wait till next year. Then a family with twins already in the three-year old class announces that they have been transferred out of state so will not be returning in the fall. Two more spots – yay! The week before letters come out that family has a change of heart and decides that they want to stay in San Francisco, one of the siblings is still wavering and another family is leaning towards buying a house in Marin (will they stay or will they go?). You can see how the number of openings is a moving target and most schools won’t have clarity until late winter or early spring. I’m a believer in “someone needs to get that spot and it could me my child so why not apply?” Applying means time and money though, so figure out what works for you. Bottom line – be realistic but don’t bet on spots one way or another.
  6. Have a plan of action before letters come out – Some schools have rolling admissions and others send out letters once a year (usually in March). If you will be hearing from several schools at once take the winter holidays to decide what you will do with the potential outcomes without the emotion that letters cause. If my child gets into school A and is waitlisted at B and C I will put down the deposit at A. But C is our first choice so if she gets in off the waitlist we are willing to lose our deposit at A. Move quickly – there are many families in the same situation and in order to serve the most families, schools must act quickly. If you don’t want to hold the spot at school A say “no” right away – the family whose hearts are set on that school will be grateful.
  7. Being waitlisted is part of the process – First and foremost don’t take it personally. Schools are taking several factors into consideration when making their decisions, many of which are out of your control (for example dates of birth, siblings, boy/girl ratios). If you like a school, don’t hold a grudge, just stay on the waitlist. There is more movement in the spring/summer than parents realize. Let the school know that it is a top choice for you (if it is), and then check in with the school once in a while (not obsessively, but every 4-6 weeks or so) to express your continued interest.
  8. Being denied admission is part of the process, too – See above for reasons that are out of your control. Don’t beat your self up over this. Remember all that talk about grit and resilience? This is one opportunity to model those characteristics for your child.
  9. Try and refrain from posting negative comments about the school on parent sites – Yes, after play dates or the week letters come out you may feel like the process is totally unfair, but be careful about posting your negative thoughts about a school online. Many admissions directors are legitimately on these sites as parents of young children. Even if they’re not on there, then other parents at the school are. Thinking of posting anonymously then? Don’t – it’s pretty easy to figure out who you are. It’s a small town, so don’t burn your bridges in the heat of the moment (see grit above). Who knows – your child might have had a better play date than you think or your child just may be the next person on the waitlist.

And remember….

It will work out. This is just one step in your child’s exciting educational journey. You will find a positive, nurturing learning environment for your child. And you will be blown away by how they blossom and their world expands in preschool and beyond.

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About the Author: Anu Menon is human rights attorney turned admissions director, on sabbatical while planning new ways to change the world. She is a graduate of Stanford, John Hopkins, and UC Berkeley and has extensive experience building and sustaining networks for a number of organizations, including Stanford University, the City and County of San Francisco, and most recently, Presidio Knolls School.

Tips from an Admissions Director – Part 1: The Thought Process

Today’s post is Part 1 in a 2-Part Guest Series: Tips from an Admissions Director.  As someone who has seen the ins and outs of real-life preschool admissions, Anu Menon has some great wisdom to share with parents.  If you’re going through the process now, be sure to create an account at KidAdmit to manage all of your applications!

It’s preschool admissions time in San Francisco! Did that send a chill up your spine? Before you read on, know this – it’s going to be ok. Things work out. Don’t waste the next year pushing yourself to the brink of insanity. Enjoy and savor your growing child, do your due diligence, and let the process unfold. Continue reading

Exclusive: Getting Ready for Preschool Series Part 1

Got preschool on the brain? We are very excited to partner with child development and early education specialist, Aki Raymer, M.A. of Parenting Paths on some great ideas on how to prepare for this important milestone.

You can read more about 5 Things you Can Start Doing TODAY to Prepare for Preschool on this blog we created for Recess Urban Recreation. Continue reading

Please welcome Irene Byrne, M.A. to the KidAdmit Team

We are really excited to have Irene join our team.  She brings her years of experience as the Executive Director of Phoebe Hearst Preschool and her early education expertise.  Here is a message from Irene.

“I am excited to announce that I have joined the KidAdmit Team in San Francisco. As an early childhood educator and consultant I am delighted to have found a platform that not just allows me the ability to streamline my admission process at the Phoebe Hearst Preschool, but also allows parents the same luxury. One of the most stressful things for parents embarking on this process is not knowing where to start. The main reason that I write my preschool books is to give parents guidance getting to that point and helping them to plan their next steps. Now they can also plan their application process. I look forward to working with the team at KidAdmit as we all strive to make this less stressful and time intensive for preschools and for parents.” Continue reading